It’s Not About Him, It’s About Us

Lately, I have been growing increasingly frustrated with Stephen A. Smith and his attempts to draw equivalences between the criminal prosecutions of Donald Trump and Black American men. Smith seems to think we Black American men have a propensity for committing crimes, and as a result, we Black American men should be more inclined to identify with Trump’s legal travails. Smith even thinks this perceived affinity should motivate us Black American men to vote for Trump in the upcoming presidential election. But let’s be clear: Donald Trump isn’t being victimized by the American criminal justice system. He spent four years as US President thumbing his nose at American jurisprudence while allegedly going out of his way to break its laws.

Smith wants us to ignore the fact that Donald Trump was born with a silver spoon in his mouth. Trump’s inherited privilege is what causes him to falsely believe he is entitled to preferential treatment, even after he allegedly 1) paid off a porn star to prevent her from talking about their sexual affair, 2) stole and then stored classified and top secret government documents at his Florida resort and 3) asked Georgia election officials, all fellow Republicans, to find the exact number of votes he needed to steal the presidential election from the Democratic Party’s presidential nominee, Joe Biden. And let’s not forget he lit the fuse that turned his MAGA supporters into insurrectionists on January 6, 2021.

Stephen A. Smith seemingly wants us Black American men to forget that the unenlightened (or Un-Woke) segment of White America has been trying to make us Black American men the face of criminality since the general Black American population stopped working for free after then-President Abraham Lincoln signed the Emancipation Proclamation in 1864.

It seems obvious that Smith is unfazed in making this equivalence because of who he associates with. He has been known to break bread with the likes of Dallas Cowboys owner Jerry Jones, who reportedly is one of Donald Trump’s closest friends. Because of his association with Jones, it’s safe to say Smith has probably broken bread with the former president as well, and has undoubtedly completed 18 holes of golf with him at his Florida resort. So, it’s not much of a leap to surmise that Smith has probably been asked to use his platform to do Trump’s bidding.

Smith has built a reputation for being one of ESPN’s most brash and opinionated sportscasters. Who doesn’t enjoy watching episodes of ESPN’s First Take, where Smith’s topics of conversation center around sports, not racial politics? But Smith’s comments on race are inflated with ignorance and insensitivity, for it shows he is possibly working with the Trump Reelection Team to get more of us Black American men to vote for Trump in November.

My Black American brothers, it’s not about him (Donald Trump), it’s about us, our ability to remain the default leaders of the movement to inject unconditional love and neighborly compassion into the hearts and minds of the living. It is our Black ancestors’ exercise of these superpowers before, during and after the Civil Rights Movement of the 1950s and ‘60s that have allowed us, their contemporaries, to develop and display reconciliatory excellence in the present age.

Donald Trump is not deserving of our time, attention or votes. Unlike us, he is not committed to creating a more perfect union.

Affirmative action as we knew it was eliminated by a conservative Supreme Court that Trump’s Republican Senatorial minions corruptly seated by first preventing the first Black American president, Democrat Barack Obama, from making more progressive appointments.

He denounces and supports the elimination of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion programs.

He equates Black history with Critical Race Theory.

And he supports the banning of books written by Black authors.

As men, we are called to stand in the gap for our women and children. As Black American men, we are called to stand with our closest constituents – our Black American women and Black American children – while pressuring the country’s duly elected leaders, both Democratic and Republican, to do right by all its people, not just a select few.

Stephen A. Smith seemingly wants us to deviate from this purpose, even as he enjoys the perks of being associated with the wealthy, influential and powerful. What I hope he realizes, though, is the conquering oppressors that he chooses to associate with have no desire to develop authentic relationships with us, their more compassionate neighbors.

While our Black ancestors established the longstanding tradition of demanding that this country live up to its ideals- that all men (and women) are created equal, and have been endowed with inalienable rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness – the fact still remains that it has not. And when Black celebrities like Stephen A. Smith float false equivalencies to get a criminally indicted former president re-elected, it confuses matters. We Black Americans are wired to be compassionate and neighborly because lashing out violently only makes things worse for everybody. We must get in each others faces and share truthful and heartfelt stories that speak to where we were, where we are, and how much further we have to go as a people and as a nation.

We will know that our nation is starting to become defined by unconditional love and neighborly compassion when more of us are seen hugging it out with people who look different than us but share the belief that our union can be perfected.

Stephen A. Smith would have us Black American men embrace a man who wants us to hate more and love less.

“CHECKMATE” | A Poem by J. A. Faulkerson

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THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

Require moments of reflection

Temporary pause to consider

Historical inflections

We weren’t born

To be enslaved by the naysayer, the other

We all were made in His image

To be sister, brother

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

Cause us to doubt our place

Wanting to be citizens of this country

Not members of a specific race

Don’t get me wrong

Beautiful is the color black

But when they confine us to a color

They’re suggesting we lack

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

No reason to spat

Kindness, civility

A tip of the hat

Compassion and love

Should be the basis of our interactions

Making additions to the family

Not senseless subtractions

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

A call to make it right

Neighbor helping neighbor

Overcoming our collective plight

Don’t allow the naysayers

To call Black History CRT

Unite with enlightened others

Demand racial amnesty

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

A perpetual game of chess they play

Enough of this nonsense

It’s not the bed I wish to lay

By working together,

More can be great

Proclaim to the naysayers,

“Checkmate!”

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“March of the Compassionate Neighbor” | A Poem by J. A. Faulkerson

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Compassionate.

Neighborly.

Two words with different meanings but working toward the same goal.

The Literati say they are adjectives that modify nouns.  I say they become active verbs when they are embodied in a person, in a people.

There have been protests, there have been marches.  The one I think about most is the 1964 March on Washington, where the keynote speaker was the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther, King, Jr.

This march produced results, specifically passage of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.

But then there was the one in 1965, at Selma’s Edmund Pettis Bridge, where then Southern Nonviolent Coordinating Committee Chairman John Lewis and other black residents were beaten with sticks wielded by white police officers.

Bloody Sunday, they call it.

Black bodies bloodied by white lawmen, white lawmakers, for wanting to participate in the franchise – local, state and federal elections.

These are the marches I think about, the ones that resonate with me the most.

No, I wasn’t there.  I arrived in 1968, 16 days before an assassin’s bullet ended Dr. King’s life. 

Nor was I there in October 1995, when Louis Farrakan invited Black American men and their non-black allies to something called the Million Man March

I may have not been present that day, a small speck among the sea of black men, but my spirit was.  Watching this event play out on TV, I prayed that the nation would look past Farrakan’s fiery rhetoric to hear his admonishment to black men.

Black men, you must do more to stand in the gap for your black women, your black children, your American nation.   

These marches had goals, righteous ones.

But then January 6, 2021, happened. 

The Stop the Steal Rally.

An event organized by supporters of a former United States president.

The individuals who came to Washington that day weren’t compassionate or neighborly. 

If anything, these insurrectionists were livid, driven by hatred for their fellow man, their fellow compatriots, all because their candidate had lost his bid to serve a second term as the United States president.

The question that we, members of the US electorate, must ask ourselves is what hope did these insurrectionists have in reclaiming something that had not been stolen?

Why didn’t they just stay home, accept the loss like so many others have done, support the peaceful transfer of presidential power?

That’s what the citizens of democracies are expected to do when voters duly elect a new leader to office. 

But that begs another question.

How are we supposed to act in times such as these?

Times when absolute truths, facts really, are ignored, disregarded.

Times when news of candidates’ criminality, indiscretions, don’t disqualify them from running for political office but instead allow them to lead by double digits in their party’s statewide primary elections.

Times when marches led by the descendants of enslaved Africans are wrongly contrasted with one that served the purpose of one person, the defeated former president.

The Christian Bible admonishes us to do unto others as we would have others do unto us.

These united states of America can be great, but they can never be great again.  That’s because they have never been great. 

Enshrined in the United States Constitution is the pledge to create a more perfect union.

Why?

Because our Native Americans ancestors had their land stolen from them.

Because our Black American ancestors were enslaved and oppressed.

Because our Asian American ancestors were relegated to concentration camps on US soil during World War II.

Nothing great about denying people’s rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.

The fact is, I’m not better than you, and you’re not better than me. 

We’re equals.

Equals that become better individuals, better unions, when we acknowledge the gifting that has been bestowed upon the other. 

But we don’t stop there. 

We also go out of our way to embrace and comfort others when the weight of the world weighs them down.

I am your Compassionate Neighbor, the guy who lives with his family next door.

Love me.

Work with me.

Pray with me.

March with me.   

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COMING SOON: MARCH OF THE COMPASSIONATE NEIGHBOR: Selected Poems by J. A. Faulkerson

CHECKMATE

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

Require moments of reflection

Temporary pause to consider

Historical inflections

We weren’t born 

To be enslaved by the naysayer, the other

We all were made in His image

To be sister, brother

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

Cause us to doubt our place

Wanting to be citizens of this country

Not members of a specific race

Don’t get me wrong

Beautiful is the color black

But when they confine us to a color

They’re suggesting we lack

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

No reason to spat

Kindness, civility 

A tip of the hat

Compassion and love

Should be the basis of our interactions 

Making additions to the family

Not senseless subtractions

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

A call to make it right

Neighbor helping neighbor

Overcoming our collective plight

Don’t allow the naysayers 

To call Black History CRT

Unite with enlightened others

Demand racial amnesty 

THE TIMES THAT WE LIVE IN

A perpetual game of chess they play

Enough of this nonsense

It’s not the bed I wish to lay

By working together, 

More can be great

Proclaim to the naysayers, 

“Checkmate!”

Copyright 2024. Jeffery A. Faulkerson. All rights reserved.

To discover more titles by J. A. Faulkerson, visit https://jafaulkerson.wordpress.com/store/.

What is The Culture Code?

By now, many of you are probably wondering why I decided to create a blog titled The Culture Code. The title has a lot to do with the name of my company, Culturally Coded Content. Through this company, I have been able to independently publish three books, Adinkrahene: Fear of a Black Planet, Real Men Raise CHAMPIONS: Unleashing Your Inner COACH and Young Achiever Playbook: Planning to Achieve.

While my company was created primarily to produce written projects that educate, entertain and enlighten, I know who I am, a Black man with strong thoughts and feelings – opinions – about the issues of the day. Consequently, I knew I couldn’t remain silent as I watched dark, evil forces suppress full expressions of the spiritual fruit, i.e., love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. I found myself becoming upset at the news media for ignoring the message of peaceful protestors boldly proclaiming, “Black Lives Matter,” preferring to sensationalize the antics of looters and rioters instead. Like many of you, I know members of the news media are being used by these dark, evil forces to spread messages of hate, injustice and chaos. But what they don’t seem to fully comprehend is the lengths these dark, evil forces will go to discredit the Black Lives Matter Movement specifically, the Civil Rights Movement generally. The dark, evil forces seem to have initiated a well-funded and coordinated campaign to cast their agents as the good guys, peaceful protestors as evil.

But we all know how this story ends. When all is said and done, good will always prevail over evil. Good prevails because harboring hatred for one’s neighbor gets old after a while. We humans were created by God the Father, in his image, to be in relationship with each other. He has also gifted us with the ability to be compassionate for earthly brothers and sisters who are being mistreated for just living in the skin they’re in. But the tone that is being set by these dark, evil forces is changing the temperature in the room, causing us to be less compassionate. Instead of creating a more perfect union, some of us want to dredge up the same selfish sentiments from sixty years ago to make America great again.

But why? Why are so many U.S.. citizens allowing the dark, evil forces to lead them down a rabbit hole? I believe it has a lot to do with changing demographics wrought by the browning of America.

Conservative Republicans are seemingly losing their minds because of it, believing they will never win another presidential election due to their apparent disdain for votes from Black Americans and other persons of color. And after voters elected Barack Obama, a Black American man, as the Leader of the Free World for two presidential terms, they thought their fates were sealed. They were, but the darkest, most evil agents in their ranks weren’t about to go down without a fight. They seemingly are in the midst of a last-ditch effort to rig the executive, legislative and judicial branches of government for themselves. By inserting their people in high-ranking government positions, some of them being lifetime appointments, they could at least ensure their futures are a little more hopeful.

Unbeknownst to them, their calculated crimes against humanity are going to be costly.

Right now, we have a generation of children and adolescents who are being victimized by these dark, evil forces. As these young people watch the six o’clock news with, or without, their parents, they listen to the dark, evil forces’ champion talk about “dominating the streets” in an effort to deny U.S. citizens their First Amendment Right to free speech. They listen as the dark, evil forces’ champion says, “It is what it is,” when answering questions about how he feels about the more than 150,000 COVID-19 deaths that have occurred on his watch, not Barack Obama’s, George W. Bush’s, Bill Clinton’s, George H.W. Bush’s, Ronald Reagan’s or Jimmy Carter’s. And they watch as the dark, evil forces’ champion walks around in public spaces without a face covering or regard for his proximity to others. In their minds, if he can behave this way as a 74-year-old Caucasian male, they should be able to do the same.

I still want to entertain, educate and enlighten, so I guess my The Culture Code blog can be seen as a much-needed addition to my portfolio. Just know, my intent is to promote love not hate, justice not injustice, peace not war. We have to be more sensitive to the wrongs that are occurring in our culture, acknowledge how the dark, evil forces want us to fuss and fight rather than kiss and hug. I don’t know about you, but COVID-19 has shown me just how much I took these kisses and hugs for granted. When I am once again able to kiss and hug my loved ones, there’s no doubt I will be more appreciative.

Know this, though. At the end of the day, we are family, a human one, united for all eternity by the Blood of Christ if we have love for God and neighbor in our hearts.

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DC Area Author Releases Young Achiever Playbook To Inspire America’s Youths

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Friday, March 22, 2019

Northern Virginia – Author J. A. Faulkerson announced today the release of the first installment in his Young Achiever Playbook series.  Young Achiever Playbook: Planning To Achieve offers adolescents and young adults practical strategies for establishing firmer foundations for prosperous living, and is the latest offering from Culturally Coded Content, a Northern Virginia-based creative writing and nonprofit management firm.

YAP Front CoverThroughout the pages of Young Achiever Playbook: Planning To Achieve, J. A. bares his soul, recounting how an arthritic hip condition, and the end of his collegiate track and field career, fostered a newfound appreciation for what he calls the Four Pillars of ProsperityNurturing, Learning, Working and Leading.  After coming to terms with this career-ending diagnosis, J. A. vowed to be the kind of man who:

  • fell in love with one woman, got married and provided parental warmth to his children (Nurturing);
  • graduated from college with a grade point average of 3.0 or better to actively pursue and take advantage of educational, vocational and social opportunities (Learning);
  • developed a strong work ethic derived from an entrepreneurial mindset (Working); and
  • influenced the society at large through positive investments of time, talent, treasure and testimony (Leading).

“After making this vow,” J. A. said, “I had to connect what I was doing then to what I wanted to do later in life.  Making this connection was the first step I took to create a Personal Prosperity Plan.  I call it my Adult LIFE Vision.  By focusing my full attention on it, I was better able to identify the things I needed to do to grow the right amount of intelligence, personality and character to be successful at whatever I put my hands to.”

He added, “I’m a firm believer in the old saying, ‘If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.’  During my TRIO Upward Bound days, when I was a Director, I made sure we engaged our young scholars in activities that didn’t just prepare them for college.  My staff and I also thought it was important for them to envision the kind of adult lives they wanted to lead.  The stakes are even higher for me now, as I am raising a son who I hope will unashamedly embrace all of the concepts outlined in this book.”

J. A. believes we now live in an era where personal achievement is becoming synonymous with the amount of money people have in their bank accounts (and what they do with it) rather than the amount of neighborly love they have in their hearts (and what they do to bless others). He contends that Achievers who are in touch with their selfless selves impartially consider their neighbors needs to become concerned enough to care. “Because they care,” J. A. said, “they give freely of their time, talent, treasure and testimony.  And by engaging in these philanthropic endeavors, they are letting others know it’s not all about them, it’s about us.”

The 121-page book is available now for online purchase as a paperback or ebook through Amazon’s Kindle Direct Publishing.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

JAFaulkerson Headshot, 1-2-19J. A. Faulkerson is a Strategist, Author and Speaker with Culturally Coded Content, a Northern Virginia-based creative writing and nonprofit management firm. A Master-level Social Worker who has worked on behalf of disadvantaged and disenfranchised children, youths and adults for over 20 years, he is committed to producing creative works that don’t just entertain, but educate and enlighten as well.

J. A. is the author of Adinkrahene: Book One (Fiction) and Real Men Raise CHAMPIONS: Unleashing Your Inner COACH (Nonfiction). Adinkrahene: Book One was one of three titles honored at the 2015 Phillis Wheatley Book Awards ceremony, in the First Fiction category. The Phillis Wheatley Book Awards are held annually on the campus of Columbia University as the kickoff event to QBR’s Harlem Book Fair.

To purchase one or more of J. A.’s available titles, or to book him as a workshop presenter or event speaker, visit www.jafaulkerson.wordpress.com/j-a-bookings.

A portion of all proceeds from the sale of Young Achiever Playbook: Planning To Achieve support the work of ACHIEVEMENT SQUARE Development & Training Centers, Inc., a registered 501(c)3 charitable organization.  To make a tax-deductible donation, visit www.achievementsquare.org/give.

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A Lesson on Lordship

54831101-8759-4FB3-ADFB-CC0AA23F6B69-33974-0000226F9FC59B48Here’s what I learned about Lordship from Crossover Church Pastor Tim Seay on Sunday, February 10, 2019:

If you view Him as Savior, you ask yourself, “What did He give up for me?”

If you view Him as Lord, you ask, “What must I give up for Him?”

We need to recognize His Lordship in everything we do. This approach is based on the reality of who He is.

Position for Salvation: Must confess and renounce our sin for it to be forgiven. Say exactly what God says about sin.

Position for Lordship: Must declare that Jesus died and was resurrected for our sin, and because of that, He is Lord. Say exactly what God says about Jesus.

How do we practice His Lordship in our lives?

  • Disciplinary Trials – God has to intervene to bring us back into alignment.
  • Developmental Trials – God brings a trial in our lives so he can advance us. He is trying to get us ever closer to Kingdom Perfection.

Under his Lordship, there is safety (Divine Protection) when we are obedient. We must never get tired of carrying his over-sized Umbrella of Protection (i.e., Cross), or try to reduce its size.

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